Today's highlights  |  You can choose to be on the right side of it.  |  
  | There is no successful relationship without respect  |  
  | A crash course in toxic femininity.  |  
  | You can't control everything that happens during the day, but you can manage how it starts.  |  
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In case you missed it  | Please stop telling me how I should feel.  |  
  | Please stop talking about our clothes — the world is on fire  |  
  | Tardigrades are well-known for their resilience, and now a computer model suggests a potential mechanism…  |  
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Quick reads  | For designers and non-designers.  |  
  | A public market with a mission to support companies and investors who share a long-term vision  |  
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Best in Art  | Authentic collaboration is more relevant today than ever before  |  
  | Understanding the Art and Architecture of the Crown Jewel of the Byzantine Empire  |  
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Best in Race  | Escalating reveal parties show the dangers of the social media spectacle in a highly gendered culture  |  
  | How the pioneering comic book writer and bird-watcher turned his Central Park encounter into art  |  
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Most read  | A personal history of my 'blaccent,' whatever that is  |  
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